April 30, 2013

Cinta itu Seni!

April 30, 2013

Menurut gw, cinta itu adalah sebuah kesenian. Walaupun kata orang banyakan seni galaunya sih daripada seni estetiknya. Memang nggak bisa dipungkiri, jatuh cinta itu menyenangkan. Seperti pelajaran kesenian keterampilan yang selalu gw nanti-nantikan semasa SD. Melipat origami, merangkai bunga dari sedotan, membuat lukisan kincir angin dari bubur koran, dll. Gw bukan orang yang berbakat di bidang seni. Hasil karya gw pun kadang-kadang berhasil, tapi sering juga gagal. Kalau hasilnya bagus, tentu saja gw senang dan memamerkannya ke seisi keluarga. Tapi saat hasilnya hancur, seperti saat merangkai bunga dari sedotan, gw pun menangis. Membayangkan sudah melipat 100 sedotan dan menyusunnya satu per satu hingga membentuk satu kesatuan bunga dan vasnya, lalu hasil karya gw hanya diberi nilai 75. Sedangkan semua teman rata-rata mendapat nilai 90. Gw jelas emosi dan kesal. Tapi kalau diingat-ingat lagi, gw tetap menikmati setiap detik yang gw buang untuk mengerjakannya. 

Jatuh cinta itu menyenangkan. Tanpa gw sadari, gw itu termasuk orang yang amat sangat muluk-muluk dalam hal cinta. Gw sangat memperhatikan cowok yang nantinya akan gw beri gelar 'Sang Pencuri Hati'. Yang gw perhatikan bukan kepada siapa gw jatuh cinta, tapi kepada ORANG SEPERTI APAKAH gw jatuh cinta. Sebagai cewe, sudah nature-nya untuk gw gampang 'lapar mata', begitu lihat cowo ganteng dikit, langsung suka. Tapi tentu saja gw nggak segampang itu buat jatuh cinta. Butuh chemistry-chemistry yang kuat dan koneksi yang deep untuk membuat gw jatuh cinta. True story!

Gw nggak tau daritadi gw ngoceh apa, malah mungkin nggak nyambung sama sekali topiknya. Awalnya berniat kasih judul "The Art of Moving On and Starting it Back From Zero All Over Again", tapi setelah nulis tanpa juntrungan, kayaknya nggak cocok. Hahaha. Maybe I'll write about that on my next post :p

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Xoxo,
J.

April 16, 2013

A note for guys.

This post has been staying in my draft for quite some long time. I've decided to publish this one now since the more I read it, the more I can relate to it. Anyway, this is not my writing. I found this article on Facebook :)

Treat your girl right, bro. Plain and simple.

I know it can be hard to please her sometimes, but it’s worth it in the end. Remember that she’s your happiness, your world. She should be the first person you talk to in the morning, and the last person you whisper “Good night” to. Unlike some of your bros, she’s going to be there for you when you’re the happiest, but more importantly, when you’re at your lowest. She’ll cook for you and care for you, so treat her like a queen. Girls are delicate creatures. Think before you say. Think before you act. They take every little mistake you make and multiply it by a thousand. So try not to mess up, aight? When you’re fighting, sometimes it’s better to put your relationship before your own pride. You’re not helping yourself by making her upset, bro. And never, ever, under any condition, let her go to sleep crying. She’ll resent you for it for the rest of your days. Don’t forget to make her feel special everyday. Open doors, go shopping with her. Hell, make dinner for her! The more you show her you love her, the more she’ll give you in return. Remember that an “I love you” via text is never as special as one in person. And show her off to your bros, don’t be ashamed of her. She’s never been ashamed of your dorky ass. Look, she doesn’t really need much in a relationship; she just wants to feel like she matters to you. That’s not asking for much, bro.
But if you haven’t learned a thing from reading this, remember this. Love her unconditionally, loyally, and keep her close. Love her with everything you’ve got: emotionally, mentally, and physically. Because I swear, if you won’t treat your girl right, someone else definitely will.


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